Let it go. Forget it. What’s done is done, what has happened has been. Pity your enemy - know you are their weakness, which makes you powerful. They are not your problem - YOU are, if you let them bring you down. Smile to those who have foul or untrue things to say of you, after all, they are only words… voice set to breath, falling from the chapped lips of a tormented soul, in denial that he, in fact, is the fool. Quit talking to yourself and others of your or their mistakes - let yourself live free and live happy. Let time take it’s course in maturing you emotionally and physically. Don’t ever question yourself, but rather let your feet carry you confidently into the unknown. You are you, made with impeccable perfection. Being able to keep moving forward in body, spirit, and mind is a gift in which everybody posses… Use it.
Friends became strangers and home doesn’t feel like home anymore.
Give your daughters difficult names. Give your daughters names that command the full use of tongue. My name makes you want to tell me the truth. My name doesn’t allow me to trust anyone that cannot pronounce it right.